Tattoos: Divisive or Uniting?
Through history, tattooing has either brought us together, or drove us
apart. When it comes to different social affiliations, some imagery may
automatically leave an unsavory taste in your mouth and drive you to
avoid that individual. Although one may think they know the person's
background, their character and behavior, and even the meaning behind
that tattoo at a single glace. This challenges us today to refrain from
passing judgement, although it still does not mean we must hold a space
in our life for that individual.
If we sit down with our
grandmother, she may help us navigate our thoughts on this matter. Now
she knows you and she loves you but she may not love your tattoos. We
forget that even though she may be "stuck in her ways" she has seen the
evolution of tattooing as a main stream form of body modification.
Tattoos may at one point, have represented a ruffian type of
rapscallion. Being less common practice, one may feel safe in their
assumption that that individual lived a rough life. Maybe a life of
crime, maybe even served time. And she would hate for others to feel the
same way about you.
But then we have this beautiful concept
called generational divide. Generational divide is the difference of
opinions between one generation and another regarding beliefs, politics,
or values. This is where our parents come in. They have seen a glimpse
into both, your grandmother's generation and your own. They have seen a
plethora of people, both tattooed, and unscathed. They have seen
criminals free of ink, they have seen fully tattooed people giving back
to their communities. They have seen you, a continually evolving human
striving to be good and kind, and fully blasted with art.
So how
do we break these generational prejudices? With patience! Next time you
get a tattoo invite your mother/grandmother. Show them this beautiful
world of art, and freedom of expression. Maybe you'll soften their heart
one day. Maybe they'll even agree to get matching tattoos! Or maybe,
they will continue to think and behave as they always have, but add a
little sweetness to their interactions